Is it required to hide one’s Originality in bringing them Close to their Love?
“How am I looking today? What to wear? Shall I let my hair open? Shall I apply ‘kajal’ on my eyes? Which shade of nail polish would match with my dress?” Aren’t these the most common questions which a girl asks herself or her friends when she generally is about to go to meet a boy or her boyfriend?
Probably no one knows why girls used to think and ask themselves these sorts of questions often. Forget about others, it might be possible that a girl herself doesn’t know why she used to think like that. Most of us think and few even believe that if someone really likes a girl, he won’t bother about her outfits but like her the way she is.
Most of the times a boy or a girl who likes each other witnesses both of their negative feelings or bad sides but they often doesn’t get angry on each other nor do they complain. And this brings them more closer to each other.
If we go on hiding our identity at every point of our life, we are doing nothing but trying to hide ourselves from our partners which sometimes results into a big quarrel among them which sometimes even conclude into breakup. If our partner loves us truly, he/she will always find us perfect in any outfit and they won’t feel shy to accept us in front of anyone else.
It might happen with most of the girls that after when they get into a relationship with anyone, they used to think that how much time they spent in front of the mirror earlier when they were single and how less time they used to spend at present. Usually after they fall in love with someone else, it makes them believe and also makes them realize that real beauty lies inside. And after they started feeling that, they don’t waste much of their time in selecting dresses to wear or even doing their makeup. They don’t even care what others use to think of them as because her world at that time is her partner who likes her very much. This also happens with a boy too at his early stage. He also does hesitate to come in front of a girl in his half pants or pajamas because he always used to think that what she will feel of him if she sees him like that. And if both of them get married in future, it shouldn’t and won’t be the same like what they used to think early of each other.
Whatever might be the situation; both the partners should always try to be themselves and shouldn’t feel that they are ugly. We should always think that if someone really likes us, they will accept us whoever we are no matter what others think about that because love doesn’t see one’s outfit but it sees one’s heart how big is it.